Fitness is a everyday thing. Not a one time thing.
Most of us have fitness goals that sound like – I want to lose 10 kgs or I want to fit into my 32 size jeans.
Such goals lead to action items that look like – I will work out for 1 hour everyday and be on a diet of a certain type until the goal is achieved. I have had such goals for several years and have failed every time.
My success with such efforts have always been partial. I lose about 4 kgs after what feels like a huge effort and with lot of personal sacrifices and then nothing happens after that. Either I got complacent after the 4 kg loss or could not adhere to the routine, because it felt like I was sacrificing a lot. The reason for the failure was never my lack of determination or my half-hearted efforts. I think the reason was due to the over-emphasis on doing something in a particular way. I felt that the workout was a very difficult task and the diet was a huge sacrifice of personal favourite good choices.
A few years back I enrolled with Wild fit that introduced me to a new way of thinking about food – the hunter gatherer way. It meant that I stick to only meat, vegetables, fruits and everything that can be cooked at home. You should read up about wildfit to know more about it. That food philosophy benefitted me a lot. I have not eaten pizzas, burgers, donuts, baked items or carbonated drinks for 4 years and have zero cravings for them. Wild Fit helped me discipline my food habits to a great extent.
During lock down, when my favourite restaurants were closed and I could not order from my favorite take-aways, and I had to cook my own food – I realised that I was cooking and eating what I truly liked and my cooking was always to my taste. In two months, my craving for restaurant food had dropped to zero. Plus with the additional time at home, I adopted new fitness routines – routines that are effective for my age and body type. And, I am now regular with my workout.
It has now dawned on me, that staying fit is a combination of may be 80% eating right and 20% working out, not the other way round.
Being fit is a way of being and not a way of doing something temporarily.
Having realized this, I am hoping that for me, going forward, eating right and working out right will be a lifetime endeavour – a way of being. With time, the weight loss and inch loss will anyway happen.
I encourage everyone to also relook at their fitness goals and reset them to more meaningful ones. Focus on the being rather than the doing.
About the Author:
Sandhya Reddy is a Life coach and Leadership coach based in Bangalore, India. She is the Founder and Principal Coach at Chapter Two Coaching, a coaching consultancy that enables everyone from CEOs to work-from-home parents to achieve their goals by replacing self-imposed limitations with enabling stories.
Sandhya, a life coach in Bangalore, who runs a life coaching academy, can help individuals with a desire for change to examine their beliefs – or their ‘stories’ – and change them for the better, so they can achieve their goals.
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